LIFE, HYPER-POWERED
I built this website to share what I have learnt. I am volunteering to give back to community, and it gives me a sense of purpose. Some people really need assistance, but there is only so much that I can assist with 24 hours a day. So I built this website so that more people can benefit.
I always believe that everyone has a chance to learn, as long as the person has the willingness to learn.
I’ll be honest. I’m not in this just for you. Anybody who has taught anything knows that the teacher learns at least as much as the students in every class. Giving free self-development advice and helping people helps me reach the next steps in my own growth and mastery – and the ultimate goal is to make the world better. In addition, this is something that makes me jump out of bed and look forward every day.
On this site, I openly and honestly share with you what has worked, providing you with the best strategies for life mastery.
What Is This Website About?
OutSuccess is about improving yourself. You can’t just focus on one area, but neglect everything else. This leads to one-dimensional life, out of balance and lacking in fulfillment. Only by consistently striving towards excellence in ALL areas of your life can you achieve an extraordinary life beyond your wildest imagination.
Many people have regrets in their lives. They often do things without knowing the consequences, or they may do certain things while knowing the effects – but come to realise the true meaning after experiencing for themselves. No one can turn back time, and let’s move on positively with minimal regrets in life!
About Me
At the risk of embarrassing myself terribly, I decided to tell you all a little bit of my “swan” story. Hopefully a little insight into my path will inspire you a bit on yours….
I used to be not confident and always felt that I was “not enough”.
I was overwhelmed and always worried about not meeting my goals.
I would just give up when I met major obstacles.
I wondered why some people have so good life without worries, and thought it was just my fate.
Please do not feel sorry for me – most of the items that I mentioned above were due to myself. I had “victim” mindset and made little effort to improve myself. While I had always been hardworking, my mindset did not change and I felt that it was my fate when things did not go my way.
However, things are different now, and I have made the transition from this low confidence person. I am happy of the way I have evolved.
So why am I telling you all of this? Well, because I see so many of my obstacles and the milestones of my journey in the paths of others. Looking back, I do have regrets in my life. And it is too late when I realised. How I wish that I am being exposed to real self-development much earlier. But I can never reverse time – well, everyone has 24 hours a day no matter who you are. That is the hard truth. Nevertheless, it is better than never.
Well, I take it as it is part of learning in life, and have learnt from it and carry on. I will not be able to share with you here without life experiences. So my hope is that you also find some inspiration on the personal progress I have made as a person.
Think positively and be positive.
Try to see the glass half full. People like to surround themselves with people that make them happy. Think about the people you like spending time with? How do they make you feel? Do they give you compliments, or help you with things? Most likely they don’t complain a lot, or put you down – they make you feel good and like a good drug or some candy it makes you want more. Obviously there is a lot more to it than just listening, paying compliments or helping someone – but a big step towards being someone people like to be around is learning to be happy. And not fake happy, but genuinely happy. For me, getting to where I am happy most of the time took years.
I still am working at being positive as part of continuous improvement. But since I started and made changes, I have noticed that it is easier to learn many things in life. I am still working on smiling more, seeing the best in people, and trying to see the best in everything. All of the work is well worth the effort.
Hard work can make all the difference.
It will not happen by chance – it was sheer determination combined with many long hours and weekends filled with hard work.
I believe that you can learn anything that you put your mind to mastering. The only way to get out of critical situation was to make it happen. Every accomplishment has been the result of hard work + luck + and the help of others.
So if you really want something, make it happen.
Live your life for you.
Each day you are the CEO of your life, you are the one that has to live with yourself. Make sure you are proud of your decisions and actions. Learn to love who you are as a person (and if you don’t, figure out why and start making changes now).
Your confidence, your charisma, and your impact on others will make you more successful. Inner work and improving who you are as a person will carry over into all aspects of your life.
Learn to treat everyone you meet with respect – that person is someone’s mother, daughter, father or son – and even if someone doesn’t return the gesture; cut them some slack be the bigger person and as they say “kill them with kindness.” I keep reminding myself to pivot, thing positively and be the person I want to be.
Life Happens For A Reason And It Serves Me
No matter what happens, don’t give up. Don’t get discouraged. Big things come from small beginnings. Never lose your passion and the drive. There are many people out there whom are worse off than you, but have managed to overcome and succeed.
Let’s get Started!
On this note, I wish you all the best in your self development. Keep learning.
